NINJA THIEF ROOMMATE -- Chilly Roommates Part 2/Transcript


 * Chilly: One thing about my roommate is that she doesn't have an understand of respecting people's boundaries, but she expects people to respect hers. Now when we started moving together, we had to fill out this roommate agreement form where we discuss and agree on things like chores, how we feel about visitors, stuff we're willing to share with each other and stuff like that. Basically we agreed to share most things BUT with the other person's consent. Everything was all good for the first month, but then just like a relationship, Regina got a little too comfortable. So my bed had a loft set up so that I had more space in my half of the room, and my desk and bookshelf were underneath it. On my bed, I had a couple of plushies, a throw blanket, and a bed rest back cushion thing that I had gotten from Target. My roommate noticed that bed rest and was really interested in it to the point to the point she'd bring it up randomly in conversation where we're talking about something completely different. I didn't think much of it at first and was secretly little egotistic about it because someone wanted something that I had, and when did that ever happen? Until she got tired of talking and instead decided to jump into action. (LEVEL UP!!!) I started coming home only to find her in bed studying or doing whatever, and what was she resting on? My bed rest. When I was gone, she would ninja up my bed and grab it so she could use it for herself. Keep in mind, she had never asked for my permission to use it and just thought it was OK.
 * Viewer: But Chilly, she's not borrowing your laptop or anything without your permission. It's just a pillow, it's not a big deal. You're being too protective. (gets slapped)
 * Chilly: NO!! Everyone has pet peeves and so do I. Don't touch my stuff without permission, especially if it's something that we agreed on! I asked for it back and told her to ask for my permission next time she wanted to use it, and she did give it back to me but not without let me hear an annoyed sigh. (annoyed sigh) I thought the whole situation was over with but little did I know, she enjoyed being a ninja way too much. I kept asking for it back whenever she took it, and she eventually stopped taking it, but then.... WINTER WAS COMING. It was starting to get colder in the dorms which meant we needed to bundle up, but it also meant that Regina needed to step up her ninja game. (LEVEL UP!!!) Not only was she ninja-ing up to grab my bed rest, but she was also grabbing my blanket. This wouldn't be a big deal, but she had one of her own and she wasn't even using it. These are the people who you should avoid doing a group project with because they'll make all these empty promises in the beginning, but once your group is made, they'll just back-stab you, and you can't do anything to get out of it until the project's over. It's like being promised as a kid...or adult that you're going to Disney World, only to end up in a hardware store and you can't get out of there no matter how until your parents get all the stuff they need to do this project for your house they found on the internet. She eventually started taking and/or using more of my things without my permission, such as pens and pencils, notebooks, other stationary, some of my food, my plates, my bowls, my utensils, and any other kitchenware that I had. I tried telling her multiple times to stop using stuff without my permission and she would, but she would just resume her ninja actions a couple days later. So it seemed pointless to keep telling her to stop. So I just let her use my stuff. BUT her boundary issues don't end there. So one day I was video-chatting with a friend while typing a paper. Regina was just coming back from class.
 * Regina: Hey, you have like a package downstairs.
 * Chilly: I left my laptop open and went downstairs to grab my package, and when I came back inside at my desk...
 * Friend: Hey, what did you have up on your screen?
 * Chilly: Um, just a word doc, why? But really I already knew the answer. My friend then proceed to send me a couple of pictures of my roommate hovering over my desk looking at my laptop screen and then other ones where she was actually sitting at my desk and reading through whatever I had popped out on my screen. Either not realizing the cam was on even though there was a bright red light on or..actually I don't know what was going through her mind. I wouldn't be surprised if she had snooped around my stuff before. And do you know what i did? I think you guys have caught on by now. I didn't do anything. BUT the takeaway is that you shouldn't snoop around people's stuff nor should you take people's things without permission, otherwise, you would probably have a video made about you. What up, Regina?! (30-second outro music, then 30-second blank outro)